How, as women, we should be in the mood when we are dealing with a frustrating children, housework, errands, laundry, dinner, and sometimes, if you do not stay at home mom like me, work away from home ? My husband gave me some advice about it. He says you have to decide to be in the mood before going to sleep (or whenever!). It was really tough. We have tough days, and sometimes we just want to be left alone or do we just want to rant and talk about how bad our day was. This is where we stop and think. If we get our selves worked up over our days and then let our husbands when they walk in the door, which will set the mood for the evening is not going to be a mood.
Those of us who stay at home moms to keep in mind that our husbands had a stressful day of May too. We decide to try to let the frustrating things are going, and maybe our husbands say something ridiculous that children are not, or just give them a kiss and a hug and tell them that they missed while they were at work. Such a reception certainly would set a better mood. I know that I'm really bad about letting go of my husband when he gets home, so I decided to wear a bracelet reminder. Whenever I see it or feel it on my wrist to remind me of the kind of wife and mother I want to be the kind of mood I want to be, and I do not just mean intimacy.
Believe it or not, more sex can actually reduce the amount of stress in your marriage. Now, I do not know if it's a medical fact or not, but I can say that it definitely worked for my marriage. If I choose to let little things get to me all day, I'm not the type of woman that God wants us to be or want to be. 1st Corinthians, Chapter 7 talks about marriage. 4:05 a.m. verses tell us that our bodies belong to each other and not take away from each other (which means a husband and wife), except by mutual consent, for our bodies so that Satan can not tempt us. God's commandment for men and women to be together as one, physically.
Yes, it's the right woman, God wants us to have sex with our husbands, and he wants to do it often, so that Satan can not squeeze between our sheets. He thinks it is so important that he put that command at the beginning of the Bible. Genesis 2:24 says "Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother and cleaves to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." We have to do that act is as important as God wants us to be in our marriage. Many of you May be familiar with the book of the Bible, Song of Songs (or Song of Solomon, depending on the version). I'm not going to quote it here because there are too many and it can be considered explicitly, but if you have not read (or have not read it in a while), to sit with her husband and read it. If there is anything in the Bible that might help you get in the mood, this is it. Happy reading !!
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